Relationships

So as I was sitting here watching my favorite show, it occurred to me. People try so hard to get into relationships, for a possibly heartbreak down the line.. Is it worth it to start a relationship, if it might again end up in heartbreak? The answer to that question is yes. In every relationship we are in, we always learn something, whether it be something small like how to eat with chopsticks or something big like realizing that you want children when you didn’t before. Every relationship is different. There may be parts that you may have de ja vu with and there may be things said that you might have remembered hearing before, but when it comes down to it. Every relationship works differently. The point is, once you get your heart broken, we all think it’s the end of the world.

     We think to ourselves that we may never love again, we have decided to just be lesbians and be done with the male population. The thing to remember while going through it all is that you can survive.. You can go on and you will move on. Now in some magazines it is said that to figure out how long it will take you to get over someone, take the time you were together and cut that in half and that should be the time it will take to get over them. That my friends is a crock. I was with a guy for 1 full year and it took me 2 years to fully get over him. Now, don’t think I'm pathetic or anything.. But it just depends on how hard you fall for someone and how you work as a human being.
  
      I have friends who are with guys. They break up and move on with a new man in less then 2 months. Unfortunately I have not had that privilege. I am a person who does everything with her feelings. I am run on emotions and yes that can be a great thing but also can create problems that you weren’t prepared for. For example: When you fall for a guy who has no emotions.. He doesn’t want to share, he just wants to be physical and go out to eat, that’s when I catch myself. I rarely date the guys I actually should because like most women in America I think they are all too good for me, and I wouldn’t have a chance in a million years. The truth is, the confidence level you have can play a major part in what types of guys you attract.