Confused...

     So what is it with men who believe they are confused as they call it. They don’t know if they want to be with you... the don’t know if your what they are looking for... I say fuck that! If you don’t know if I'm the one then date me and find out. I have found so many men lately who give me the excuse "I have a lot on my plate right now, I am going through some stuff, Women are just too much drama to deal with" the list goes on and on. What I thought at first was maybe its me? Maybe I am not pretty enough or fashionable enough or skinny enough for this person, but my second thought overthrew the first. If these guys are making up excuses as to why they cant date me.. then they must not really like me, they are trying to find a way to let me down easy without killing my self esteem or something. I personally think they are being chickens.. If they don’t like someone, don’t tell them that you have a lot of stuff going on, just tell them the truth.
    
     Now under extreme circumstances maybe they really do have something major going on. But then apparently I must have a magnet on me for men who have disasters happen to them. I hate mixed signals. I like you, but not enough to drop whatever lame excuse I am making up to take you out to dinner. I have to say.. Those type of men just irritate. Women watch out for the sweet talkers too! They are killer good at that! When Prince Charming comes along which I believe no matter who you are, you have one out there someplace. He will drop what he is doing whether it be laundry, watching a movie or picking up dog crap from the backyard and take you out on a date. If you like a woman enough you make time for her! End of story!