So I have a problem. It's a problem apparently I have had since I was very little. Its called ORP (Obsessive Relational Progression) What it means is its a person who confuses Love with Obsession. I didnt realize that I had this particular condition until my mom gave me this book to read. It's called "Confusing Love with Obsession". I read it and realized that a lot of what they talk about in that book has to do with me. I always latch myself onto other people to try to validate myself as a person. I latch on and then Bam, I wake up one morning with so much pain, I can hardly breathe.