The triangle of 3

So in all relationships the common mistake people make is to try to make the relationship something it's not. They don't accept the other person for the person they are and they end up breaking it off because they cant deal that their boyfriend/girlfriend isn't perfect. No one is perfect. I know that better then most. The minute that someone looks perfect is when you have put them into a fantasy world. I believe to have a successful and healthy relationship you need the 3 parts of the triangle. The Emotional, the Mental and the Physical Connections. All 3 of those and your relationship should be smooth sailing. Not meaning you won't have fights, it just means that the commitment will be deeper then maybe a fling you once had. I can say with true sincerity that I have found someone who has given me the triangle. The Emotional is a part of a relationship that I think lacks the most. An emotional connection is one of the most important. It's how you feel about the other person. It's not being afraid to tell someone how you truly feel. It's a communication between 2 people. The mental is important because you want to make sure that your mentally on the same page. You want to make sure that they understand things the way you do and that you are both equally as smart as the other. Ever been on a date with someone who makes you feel stupid because they seem so much more intelligent then you? It sucks. And the 3rd one is physical. A lot of times this one is used in ways it shouldn't be. Physical does not mean emotion. It can if you have the emotion already in place, but having sex with someone does not make you closer if you haven't established something with them before you bring the physical in. From experience, its much better if you wait till the emotional and mental connection is there before you go rushing into the physical. Trust me. It's worth the wait.