Mixed Signals

Mixed signals. The one thing that guys are the experts on. They can tell you one thing and do the complete opposite and give you the lame excuse well “Actions speak louder then words”. The one line that every man gets the option to tell someone when you get in a fight and he spits out hurtful words to you and then the next day comes home with flowers for you to make it all better. Hey you know what? Actions might speak louder then words, but you still said the words and I heard them and guess what? They still hurt!
     No matter what someone tells you I think that one of the most powerful things about being a human is the pleasure to hear. Although I also think that the thing that gets most people in trouble in life is the ability to hear. We can hear beautiful music and it makes us lose our minds into a place where no one can touch you or hurt you. And then you hear fighting and hurtful words that sting like a bee and those sometimes are the hardest to deal with. Although he said I’m sorry and brought you flowers.. The relationship is never the same again, because deep down you still remember what he said and it still hurts no matter what.
     Some men love to speak without thinking and women, you better watch out for those ones. They have no idea that what they say could have potentially hurt your feeling. Everyone has things they want to say to another person but don’t because of the fact that if they did, they would feel like a horrible person for saying it. It might be the truth, but the truth does not always set you free. You could really hurt someone’s feelings. I think Mixed signals are the same way. It can really hurt someone’s feelings to give them false hope of something that isn’t going to happen. Men seem to have the mixed signals idea down to a tee, so women beware!