Can you change a man?

Can you change a man? Nope.. No matter what you do.. You cant change a man. He can budge a little. He can come halfway for you. Although a lot of guys expect women to change. Why do we have to change? Why? Is it because we are more adaptable? Is it because we are so much more emotional then most men they think we are desperate enough to change everything about ourselves for them? No man is worth losing yourself over. I had a relationship once that was one sided. It started out great. Then as we continued the relationship I realized that he wasn’t going to change the way he was for me. He wanted me to change some things about me but wasn’t willing to sacrifice anything on his part. He wanted me to be the type of person who just went along with whatever he had to say. Also known as a control freak I guess. What makes him think that its ok to just have a one sided relationship. People can change to a certain extent. When people get into a relationship it’s a two way exchange. People adapt there already strong selves to be with another person. They maybe try to prevent the other persons pet peeves or they try to remember to not leave the toilet seat up but in the end it is a 2 way street. If two people cant meet each other in the middle. There is no point to try. You gotta be on the same page for the book to be published.