Certain things to never say...

Are there certain things that you aren't supposed to say when you are in a relationship? How far do the boundaries really go? Can you tell a woman that she looks fat in that dress, or is that frowned upon because you will hurt her feelings. When a man asks you a question about him in bed... Do you tell him what you really think or do you just pretend that it's all good. Being honest in a relationship is important, although on the other hand can bring the relationship to disaster. Think about if every time you wanted to tell someone what you honestly think, how many times have you stopped yourself? Sure we have all thought about it, but there are only a few select people who will actually say it. Those people are either considered conceited and jealous of the other person, or just a flat out bitch or dick. There is no real way to avoid the certain things that we all wish we could say in relationships. I remember this one time, when a guy broke up with me by text message and when I asked the inevitable question "Did I do something wrong?" His answer took me by surprise. He said "To be honest, Yes you did." At that point you have two options, either ask and see what you did wrong, or just forget it and move on. Asking might hurt you even more then not. I decided at that moment to just drop it and that was it. Why agonize over the way you are? You are who you are and what annoys one person, may not annoy all people. You just gotta be prepared to answer the hard questions, even when you don't want to.