Rid of the drama in my life.

I guess I should have seen it coming but I guess it took a man like the one I have to make me understand that W wasn't good for me in the first place. Let me start from the beginning of the night to make sure I make sense. The night started with Me, J, K (W's gf), W and A (W's little brother). We started the night out just like all the other ones. Just hanging at W's and then everyone took turns going on the back of the bike like always. First it was W, then it was A and then finally K went on it. It made me really jealous and I am not really sure why. Just the idea of her arms around J make my stomach curl. It certainly pissed off W to have her on the back of the bike, especially with the comment W gave saying "give her a good ride" and K was like "don't worry he will" and because he knew how I felt about the whole thing,  J was so sweet when he decided to text me to let me know that it was ok and that he loved me. Later on we ended up dropping K off towards the end of the night and then it was just me, J, W and A. On our way back home me and W got into a huge fight no surprise there, and we ended up pulling over and A went in and tried to choke W because of his inability to treat me right and being a total asshole. They went at it and I got out of the car to try to fix it and W shoved me out of the way and tried to grab the keys and run. Well.. me and A just sat at the car while W walked away.  Me and A figuring we could give him some space, so we just waited for J to turn around and come back. Then as soon as J came over and parked, me and A walked over to him and tried to explain what happened. Well the moment that J heard the words shove and about me he got off the bike in a rage and went running towards where W had gone like a bat outta hell. When he got there, all I could see hear was W screaming "I didn't hit her" and J saying "What the fuck did I tell you about touching her? At that instant I knew I was going to have to choose sides. My best friend or my boyfriend. Just then a cop came driving up and the next thing I remember is W running towards the cop car holding his head and yelling your boyfriend is going to jail. I figured out then that J had punched W in the face for putting his hands on me. I couldn't believe that he would do something like that, but at the same time I was relieved that he did. The rest of the night was kinda of a blur. Me and W continued to fight and will kept being asked if he wanted to press charges and he kept saying he didn't know yet. Finally he decided not to press charges because otherwise they both would have been thrown in jail. It had been a very hectic night and in conclusion. I lost my "best friend" that night. I choose J over W because I felt it was the best decision I could have made. I have a guy who treats me like gold and makes me feel like I can fly and doesn't put me down or make me feel bad about myself, and then a best friend who calls me tubby and fatass and who has lead me on for the last year making me think that he wanted to be my boyfriend but instead used me for my money and didn't really want to be my boyfriend after all. When I finally started rebelling was when he started picking fights with me. Some people will never learn.